Farming communities have a unified identity. Unlike boom towns such as Tombstone and Deadwood that were established by those trying to get rich quickly, farming communities are established through generations by families and a family belief system.
The term “family values” has significant meaning, not the talking points that politicians use in an election year as a mantra. Community members also have a strong work ethic and the concept of bailouts and “free stuff” is repugnant to them. This sense of community is real. Community members work together in order for their community to thrive. In my community I have witnessed a “barn raising” for a young couple who lost their barn to a fire.
Growing up in a community has many advantages, but one disadvantage is the degree of protection these communities provide. It is understandable that individuals raised in farming communities believe that individuals have similar value systems. They believe that honor, integrity and ethics are a universal belief.
College life is very interesting. While technically it is a community, it is a transient community. The values that students bring are as diverse as the students themselves. The military attempts to create pockets of communities. Military discipline is a functional method by which the leadership organizes and gains productivity from its members. Being faced with confusing circumstances such as changing from a familiar environment with clear values to one of narcissistic confusion and chaos is difficult. When individuals are faced with the disequilibrium of dysfunction their quest is to regain their equilibrium.
When high school student athletes go to college they tend to gravitate to that with which they are familiar. During these encounters, they are often disappointed that the ethics and honor they experienced in their community is lacking or non-existent in the college atmosphere.
Having started Judo training at an early age, it was difficult for me to understand the ritual of Judo. After a few months of training the value of the rituals became part of my understanding of Judo. What has remained consistent where ever I have trained is that the rule of Judo has remained consistent. Judo training provides the student a safe place both physically and psychologically to gather thoughts and feel a sense of well-being, the terminology is consistent and for the most part, instructors have the same agenda.
During college, Judo provided a sanctuary for me. No matter where the military sent me, there was always a Judo program that welcomed guests. If there was not an official program, the military supported me starting one even if it was temporary and just an introduction to Judo.
When I first went to Japan the people at the USO were kind enough to write in Japanese the directions to the Kodokan. Once there, Judo students volunteered to show me Tokyo and travel with me for additional training and sightseeing. On subsequent visits this cordial behavior continued. During my military leaves, throughout Asia, I experienced the same courtesy. There is a camaraderie that is unique to Judo. Aikido purports to have a universal family belief system, but actually it does not. Aikido instructors have conflicting approaches and beliefs on what Aikido is and how it should be taught. Even the terminology in different Aikido systems is different as well as inconsistent.
We are bombarded with constant misinformation. Young people need to have consistency, honesty and support. Judo training reinforces the ethics and moral compass that parents want to establish for their children. Judo training supports and reinforces these principles. Judo provides the guidance, support, direction and consistency that will encourage students to continue to thrive with and pass on the knowledge to the next generation.
“Reason encompasses and judges all things. This is the very principle of Judo. This principle itself is a unique, unparalleled, universal world view.” George Ohsawa